Born a Blessing: Growing Up as the Fourth Daughter in 1970s Korea

I was born in 1969 as the fourth daughter in a family of one son and five daughters.
In those days, Korea was deeply influenced by the belief that having a son was a blessing.
So when my younger brother was born right after me, I suddenly became the “lucky charm” of the family.

We were very poor back then.
I still remember following my older sisters deep into the mountains to gather firewood,
and how far the elementary school seemed from home.
Life was hard, but it built the foundation of who I am today.

Thanks to my eldest sister, who ran a beauty salon in Seoul,
I was able to study and finish college there — something I will always be grateful for.
In Korea, it was common for siblings to support each other,
and our family bond became our greatest strength.

Now, at the age of fifty, I find myself working side by side with my younger brother in my own business.
Perhaps it’s my way of repaying the silent debt I’ve carried —
for all the times I couldn’t be there for my siblings when I was busy with my career.
He works diligently, and I’m filled with gratitude every time I see his dedication.
Life seems to have come full circle,
and I can’t help but smile at how the little “lucky charm” grew up to share her luck with others.